Stories change how we think, help us understand the world, and have the power to create a shared sense of humanity. To do stories justice in today's media-culture, its crucial to acknowledge the difference between telling a story and using a story.
This includes asking ourselves to consider and investigate why stories are framed the way they are. Using stories as a practice to capitalize on social issues with the intent to drive profits or protect reputation is more pervasive in corporate marketing than we might think. When this happens a liberating opportunity for someone to share a relatable truth can become an exploitation of their pain.
"Not having control of your own story is one of the “highest levels of oppression” - activist& author Lisa Sharon Harper, With storytelling comes a great responsibility to ensure that those sharing stories are aligned with ‘why’ the story is being told and have agency and control over the entire process.
So, here are some key things to consider if you have been trusted with the telling of someone else’s story:
Are we practicing informed consent? This involves ensuring that people are aware and knowledgeable of every element of the storytelling process and intended outcome, and have the right to approve, withdraw themselves or turn down any parts of it.
Are we truthful and accurate? This involves being mindful of sensationalizing, embellishing or framing a story to meet the needs of someone else / an organization rather than the needs of the centered person. Be mindful of making assumptions or attempting to speak on behalf of a group. This can end up reinforcing stereotypes and potentially depict the centered person as powerless and ‘needing’ your help. Are we centering the right things? Does your story reflect the needs and desires of the centered person the way they intend? Do they have control over the final presentation of the story?
Are our efforts transactional or transformational? Transactions are one way. A transformational approach means working collaboratively and not taking the approach of doing things for others, but uniting with others on a shared vision.
Are we compensating? Are we paying and(or) compensating people for their time and emotional labour?
Are we truly listening? “If we cannot listen mindfully, we cannot practice [loving] Right Speech,” Thich Nhat Hanh. Deep listening has the power to cultivate respectful relationships and build a stronger sense of community.
Are we providing access to wrap around supports if needed? This involves considering what a person may experience after sharing their story publicly. Could it cause them potential harm? Are we prepared to be in this experience together and engage in follow-up support?
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